Marriage to Khadijah
Explore the beautiful partnership between Muhammad and his first wife, Khadijah (RA)
What You'll Learn
The Successful Businesswoman
Khadijah bint Khuwaylid was a noble, wealthy businesswoman of Quraysh. She was known for her intelligence, wisdom, and noble character. She was called 'Tahirah' (The Pure One) even before Islam due to her virtuous conduct. She had been widowed twice and independently managed her own successful trading business - a remarkable achievement for any person, let alone a woman in 7th century Arabia.
Key Point
Khadijah was called 'Tahirah' (The Pure One) due to her noble character.
Key Terms
The Pure One
A title given to Khadijah before Islam due to her noble character, purity, and virtuous conduct.
Example: Khadijah was known as At-Tahirah among the people of Makkah for her exemplary behavior.
Mother of the Believers
An honorific title for the wives of Prophet Muhammad, indicating their special status and relationship to all Muslims.
Example: Khadijah is the first Umm al-Mu'minin and holds a special place in Islamic history.
The Trading Journey
Khadijah heard of Muhammad's reputation for honesty and trustworthiness and hired him to lead her trading caravan to Syria. She sent her servant Maysarah to observe him during the journey. Maysarah reported Muhammad's exceptional honesty, kindness to all, and the unusual blessings that accompanied the journey - the caravan returned with double the expected profits.
Key Point
Maysarah witnessed Muhammad's exceptional character on the trading journey.
Signs Witnessed by Maysarah
During the journey, Maysarah observed miraculous signs: clouds shading Muhammad from the desert sun, and a monk named Nestor recognizing him as the awaited Prophet. These signs, combined with his noble character, convinced Khadijah of his special status.
The Proposal
Impressed by his character and the profitable trade, Khadijah, through her friend Nafisah bint Munabbih, inquired if Muhammad would consider marriage. Despite Khadijah being 40 years old and Muhammad being 25, their union was built on a foundation of mutual respect, admiration, and shared values - qualities that would sustain them through the most challenging moments of prophethood.
Key Point
Khadijah was 40 and Muhammad was 25 when they married.
Key Events in Their Marriage
Marriage
Muhammad (age 25) and Khadijah (age 40) marry, beginning a blessed 25-year partnership
Black Stone Incident
Muhammad's wisdom in the Kaaba reconstruction brings honor to their family
Khadijah's Support
When revelation begins, Khadijah immediately believes and becomes the first Muslim
Khadijah's Death
Khadijah passes away after 25 years of marriage, deeply grieving the Prophet
A Blessed Partnership
Their marriage lasted 25 years until Khadijah's death in the 'Year of Sorrow' (619 CE). She was his first supporter when he received revelation, trembling and fearful in the Cave of Hira. She was the first person to accept Islam. She was a constant source of comfort, spending her wealth in support of the message. The Prophet never forgot her love and spoke of her with deep affection throughout his life.
Key Point
Khadijah was the first person to accept Islam.
Sahih Bukhari #3818
Narrated by: Aisha (RA)
I never felt jealous of any woman as much as I did of Khadijah, though I never saw her. The Prophet used to mention her frequently. Once I said, 'Has she not been replaced by a better one?' He became angry and said, 'No! By Allah, she has not been replaced with a better one. She believed in me when people rejected me, supported me with her wealth when people deprived me, and Allah gave me children through her when He did not give me children through any other wife.'
Theme
The Prophet's lasting love and loyalty to Khadijah
Her Place in Paradise
The Prophet received divine news that Khadijah would have a palace in Paradise made of pearls, where there would be no noise or fatigue. Angel Jibreel himself conveyed Allah's greetings to her - an honor given to no other woman.
Sahih Bukhari #3820
Narrated by: Abu Hurairah (RA)
Jibreel came to the Prophet and said: 'O Messenger of Allah, here is Khadijah coming with a dish of food. When she reaches you, give her greetings from her Lord and from me, and give her the glad tidings of a palace in Paradise made of pearls, wherein there is no noise or fatigue.'
Theme
Khadijah's special honor from Allah and Jibreel
Pause & Ponder
What can we learn from the relationship between the Prophet and Khadijah?
- •How did their partnership demonstrate mutual respect and support?
- •What qualities should we seek in a spouse based on their example?
- •How can loyalty and gratitude strengthen our relationships?
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